Edition 1 · Wednesday 23 Sep 2026

5 party bag ideas parents actually recommend

When I shared The Good Bag on LinkedIn a little over a week ago, I honestly wasn't expecting so many people to get in touch.

Parents (...mainly mothers, I have to admit!) started sending ideas, commenting with things they'd tried, brands they liked, and small alternatives to the usual party-bag plastic.

So I thought I’d start here: with the ideas real parents have actually tried and are sharing.

Here are 5 party bag ideas real parents actually recommend, plus one extra find from my weekend.

The quotes below come from parents who replied to my original LinkedIn post. Everything else is simply stuff I’ve found while researching. Nothing here is sponsored or paid for.

Spotted something that needs correcting? Please tell me — I’m learning as I go.

A colourful stack of children's books
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Books

Books came up again and again in the comments, so I had to start here. And actually, once you start looking at bundles, they can work out surprisingly cheap.

“I always bought a multipack of age appropriate books from somewhere like The Works, spread them out on a table and had the kids choose. Someone mentioned doing this with second hand books, which is arguably even better if you can manage it.”

— Yana S.
What it tends to cost

Around 50p–£3 per child

Prices vary depending on quantities and multipacks.

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Buying a mixed bundle can work out much cheaper. And you don't necessarily need party bags: put the books out at the end and let each child choose their favourite. You could even use them as prizes for party games (as long as everyone mysteriously manages to win…).

A colourful mini craft kit with pom-poms and scissors
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Mini craft kits

Something small to make — a friendship bracelet, origami, a little wooden kit to decorate — gives them something to actually do when they get home.

“Little packs of paper squares (or a large block broken down) and a print out of a simple origami. They can make the origami or use the paper with the other stationery supplies.”

— Michele O.
What it tends to cost

Around £3.50-£5 per child (less if you DIY)

Prices vary depending on quantities and multipacks.

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You can buy the kits ready-made, but you can also steal the idea and make your own. A few sheets of origami paper, some beads and string, or a tiny make-and-do can work out much cheaper when you're making 20 of them.

A flower seed packet, green sprout and loose seeds
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Seeds or something to grow

A little packet of seeds, a seed bomb or something they can plant is such a simple alternative – and there's something quite nice about the party bag still doing something weeks later.

“I like the eco bags where kids can plant their own little flower with seed bombs”

— Anna P.
What it tends to cost

Around £0.80–£3 per child

Prices vary depending on quantities and multipacks.

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Pick something children will recognise when it grows: sunflowers, strawberries, mint or wildflowers. Or buy seeds in bulk and make the little packets yourself. Add a “plant me” label and you're basically done. Add a tiny pot if the budget stretches to it (and if you're prepared to give another parent a gardening job).

A colourful treat bag with two biscuits
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Edible treats

A biscuit, some fruit, or something a little unusual can be enough — especially if it's something they don't get every day, has vibrant colours or funny shapes.

“This year we plucked our party favours from our backyard lemon tree 🍋 Our friends filled their bags and pockets!”

— Alexandria Y.
What it tends to cost

Around £2–£5 per child

Prices vary depending on quantities and multipacks.

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There's loads you could do here. Homemade, buy something in bulk and split it into little bags, or find something children might not have tried before. My son loves Pan di Stelle — very normal little chocolate biscuits with stars on them if you're Italian, slightly more exciting if you're growing up in London...

One colourful wrapped gift with a red bow
05

One better gift instead of several small ones

A few parents suggested skipping the handful of little things altogether and spending the same money on one slightly nicer thing, something a child might actually keep.

“On two separate occasions I’ve given a small non-plastic gift for my kids’ parties instead of the usual goodie bags: 1. Slinky (the original brand, made of metal) 2. A medium size pumpkin (party was in Oct.)”

— Christina S.
What it tends to cost

Around £5–£6 per child

Prices vary depending on quantities and multipacks.

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This doesn't have to mean buying something new either. I love the idea of finding a pile of pre-loved books, puzzles or toys and letting every child choose one. Possibly more effort, and something you want to do only if you have enough time before the party.

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